@twoinanddone yep, I think that’s the case.
The dream catcher is an interesting example. My (white, non-religious) daughter has one hanging in her room. I don’t think she’s ever considered it’s a religious symbol that means something to another group of people.
At any rate, I’ve talked to my husband (it’s his nephew by blood, mine by marriage) and he agreed that I should probably have a chat with him in a non-lecturing sort of way.
Really, I love this nephew like one of my own. His dad has been out of the picture for years (he was in prison for seven of those years) and his mom has had her hands full with a full-time job and his autistic brother. I step in when I can, flying out to MO help out when they need it, etc. And like I mentioned, he asks for my advice frequently and usually takes it.
Anyway, I’m leaving for MO today and we start our two-day drive tomorrow. Wish me luck and thank you everyone for your thoughtful advice!