@Emsmom1 Thank you for clarifying. Sometimes tone is tricky. You clearly care a great deal for him but as others mentioned he came across very poorly.
When I was in college a long time ago, I was at a leaders conference and I simply expressed an opinion that something should be privately funded rather than publicly. I was in tears by the end of our discussion. It was very vicious. I think diversity of opinion is important and something we need to strive to preserve and respect. We kind of lost our way on that front.