Neither party can give consent when drunk. Not legally by many definitions.
Yes, it plays out that the female is often the victim but that’s because many guys purposely try and get a woman as drunk as possible. It’s pretty rare the other way around.
Re: gyp/gypped I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been told that I’m being a sensitive snowflake for not appreciating my ancestry being turned into a slur.
Romani/Gypsies are one of the few remaining ethnicities where it’s socially acceptable to degrade, dress up as for Halloween, etc.