<p>Simple.</p>
<p>1) Make a best-effort attempt at college. From what you describe, a college close to home in a more structured environment sounds like the best option. It might be best to start at a community college for a year 2 degree and then transfer to a university. Work with the disability office to take advantage of reasonable accomodations they but recognize that they may not provide everything the student wants and passing classes isn’t promised.</p>
<p>2) If the student can’t finish college, he/she should recognize that many people have successful lives without a college degree and that the things that he/she is struggling with in college don’t necessarily reflect what happens in real life. Go off and live a happy and successful life.</p>
<p>A person with Aspergers could be highly successful at the company that I work at in many skilled positions, and would fail miserably in other skilled positions. I’d suggest that the person with Aspergers do the positions that he/she would succeed at.</p>