I guess I thought we were innocent until proven guilty in this country - even when we are kids. That doesn’t mean excusing or dismissing that means getting all the facts and having due process. If the boy did lick them or ‘grope’ them I agree that is incredibly inappropriate, but we don’t KNOW that yet. I was under the impression the parents didn’t KNOW about any of it until he was suspended that there were even any accusations. Maybe I misunderstand - it is possible.