<p>Definitely take an online course before committing to an entire online program. Online courses can be very lonely for some people, though they work well for others. </p>
<p>Also, unless you are taking AP courses online, your online program is not likely to be comparable in rigor. That may vary of course. Just don’t assume it. Even an online community college course may be inferior in rigor to an AP course whose past students have earned average scores of 4 or above. Check out the stats because you will be compared to students who have completed rigorous coursework.</p>
<p>Finally, if you have the ability to do well in IB or AP courses, you will probably be able to get more scholarship and grant money for college than you would be able to make working part time in high school. Further, the time spent working is time you could be spending studying to get those high grades needed for scholarships. I told my son he could work hard on academics in middle school and high school and get college paid for (close to a quarter million dollars when you look at all real expenses where he is going) or you could deliver pizzas during college when you have assignments due and tests to study for. He chose the former path. He did work, but he did the kind of work where he could set the hours (tutoring mostly in summers) rather than an after school job throughout the year. If your family is of limited means, you will probably qualify for more. Also, the better the school you go to, the more money they will probably have to help you out. The college you go to and the programs you study in will affect how the rest of your life goes, the people you know, the money you make, the jobs you get, and even your ability to homeschool well if you choose to. Put your education first. </p>
<p>That doesn’t mean you can’t homeschool. But, it might mean that if you do you might take some community college courses, some online courses, some independent study, and even a public school course if they let you do that where you live. </p>
<p>Consider whether there are alternatives in the public school as well, such as a science magnet program or a charter school. Evaluate each carefully. Get the best education you can. </p>
<p>As for people not being nice, I do understand. But, if you are not specifically targeted, you might be able to change that by consciously developing some ways to make friends and get people on your team. There are many problems in most public schools, but there are also some great teachers, very nice kids, and good opportunities. Try to be objective about all your options.</p>