<p>I don’t think it’s that unusual to hope to meet your future husband or wife in college. Lots of people do, and they don’t necessarily get married the second they graduate, either. </p>
<p>That said, my advice would be to find a group of friends who aren’t into hooking up. Some of them will probably be guys. And after that, don’t think too far ahead–don’t start evaluating the boyfriend potential of every guy you meet within five seconds of “hello.” That isn’t as easy as it should be, and for a lot of people (both girls and guys) it takes practice. I think you will be fine.</p>