<p>I feel bad that now that the girls are out at college or on their own , I am finally trying to make the house more liveable. We never have had the money- and H thought I should somehow squeeze redecorating funds out of the grocery money- but I would have to have had a lot more energy and skilz to be able to do that! :rolleyes:.</p>
<p>But even though it was pretty shabby when they were growing up- at least it wasn’t the kind of place where there were whole rooms they weren’t allowed into- like some of * my friends had* as kids.</p>
<p>I have taken out all of my grass- as already mentioned- mainly because it wasn’t really grass anymore- it was thatch and dandelions.
Foundation plantings along the house with manicured grass is out in our town 
& I helped!</p>
<p>Of course the dog is upset- which I didn’t anticipate, as she preferred the neighbors yard anyway.</p>
<p>It does take time unfortunately for things to grow- as I also took out several non native established shrubs ( but I still have two camellia japonicas- one which I will perhaps let live & I left the privet even though I hacked it down to stubs
)</p>
<p>The one thing H and I have decided on is a one way glass screen between us and the neighbor.

( yes I realize this is unlikely).
On our street, all the lots are 5000 sq ft. ( I have friends who have * houses* bigger than that). The house on the west side was a rental- then was vacant for two years- we planted some of the shorter ( emerald green cultivar) thujas, as a screen, just in case it became a fourplex.</p>
<p>But instead, the owner got a divorce, moved out of his house up the street and is remodeling it. First it looked like he was just adding a little space upstairs- but he is actually adding about 800sq ft to the top floor. With big windows overlooking my yard.
Since he has always made googley eyes at me- it skeeves me out.
If we put something big enough to block it- we block our sun.</p>
<p>Well the good thing is our other neighbors are great- true the east side rental has the biggest camellia I have ever seen & their driveway runs right underneath our bedroom windows- but they are nice friendly kids and the owner is one of their dads.
Our behind neighbors are also great- they have chickens, which eat all the bad bugs I hope, and they share the eggs.</p>
<p>Our house faces south & we have a front porch- which I think about enclosing- but since our house has undergone very minimal changes in 110 years, I am reluctant. ( however, I am happy they added indoor plumbing- although we still have the box where the ice used to be)</p>
<p>My H built a shed onto the detached garage- for all his stuff- however- he has been slowly getting rid of a lot- and I am planning to make it into a covered area for sitting ::::::::::::::::shh:::::::::::::::</p>