<p>wow! what an ordeal! I’m so sorry to hear all you and your D have been through. I certainly would not like the idea of random online invites showing up at my D’s room let alone the drama from her first year. Hopefully with this new person moving into the towers room today it ends all of this for you. Is it a bed for bed swap or is she still 5th on the list? I’m hoping moving forward your D has a happy and successful year. My D had an interesting room mate freshmen year but no safety issues and since then has been with her best friend she met on her floor freshman year. I agree… there should be a penalty but not the full amount especially since you gave them ample time to house someone else. It’s not like you told them move in day she wasn’t living there. Wishing you and your D all the best. </p>