How am I supposed to pay for this?

I think he is looking at what the college adds on in expenses, such as books, getting there and home …, I would guess they have a free ride minus college expenses, I do not think any school hits 80k in tuition, fees and room and board, I know some hit over 70, he has a great aid package and will be able to make it work once he better understands how the bills are paid, it seem he is doing all of this himself without parent help or understanding. Good luck.