How common for MT majors to go with a school that's academically less challenging?

I like the point that @MomCares makes above. Most performers will continue to work on their craft all their lives- but college is a very unique part of the lifespan. So in choosing a list of schools- it’s important to look for the college experience you want. That is why I strongly advocate visiting schools (if possible) before applying. And visit a wide range. My D was pretty sure she wanted an east coast urban college experience before she started, but we looked at all kinds - from tiny midwestern LACs to great big schools in big cities. Then she did the dance, got her acceptances, and we dug into the nitty gritty of $$, programs, environments etc. (and she ended up at an east coast urban school!) It gets said all the time, but is always valuable to mention- there is no ONE correct path. I know great kids at top notch BFA programs at “less than” academic schools who are happy as clams, I know great kids at top notch academic schools not as well known for theater who are creating their own artistic opportunities on and off campus.