How common is it to be denied from ALL of your reach schools?

You are getting some good feedback, OP. I would reiterate the importance of thrashing out your strategy NOW (you might have more time in the summer? and it will make you feel more prepared come admissions season).

Diversity fly-ins – see post #19 – can give you a better idea of your level of selectivity. They can also help you figure out environmental preferences like big/medium/small schools, LAC versus research university, campus vib and the famous “fit,” geography and level of comfort for being far from home.

Be very honest with yourself about Early Action and what you can or can’t live with.

Others have already stated it, but it bears repeating…Be sure you have schools you are reasonably sure you can 1) afford 2) get into and 3) love being part of.

I hope you will come back and keep us posted!