<p>When we moved D 3000 miles we did just what oregonian mom did. And in general boys don’t need/bring much – compared to girls, that is. My bet is you can pack all his stuff and between carry-on and checked-on luggage two people (meaning you and him) can bring all the necessities. If a few more of you are going, all the better. You can buy whatever you forget once you get to the school. No need to bring his winter wardrobe, mail that later. Ditto with any but the most essential books.</p>