How do deal with grade drop in junior year?

Guessing you posted in the parents forum for some perspective. Is it you who is worried or your parents? If you have 5 APs this year then you’re doing exceedingly well. At many colleges with that GPA and rigor, you’d get top merit scholarships.

1 advice: Stop comparing yourself to other students. It's not healthy. #2 Who said prioritizing ECs isn't a good thing? Again, if you have a cumulative 96 (which I take to be a 3.84) with all those APs, then you're doing amazingly well overall. And many a student has actually differentiated themselves with their ECs. Good advice from posters above.