<p>First of all wait till you have your NU offer – maybe you’ll be surprised.</p>
<p>Next – put together a list of reasons why you prefer NU over Michigan. Be prepared to discuss this with your parents as an adult.</p>
<p>If it comes down to finances – I don’t know that I can help you. Money is a factor. If you’re willing to take out loans – have this researched – where are the loans going to come from.</p>
<p>I can’t guaranty if it will work with your parents. However, My D had the choice between NU and Cornell last year (and we’re a multi-generation Cornell family). Her reasons for wanting to go to NU were well-thought out, and persuasive. That’s where she went.</p>