How do I convince my mom to let me go to my first choice university?

Generally academics and cost are the top two considerations for choosing a college. If you were trying to convince me, these would be factors that would need to be addressed. As a mom, I also want my kids to be happy. It could be difficult to convince me that a fine school with a strong sports tradition isn’t a place where you could be happy. It isn’t like you want a big state school and she wants you to go to a small, rural LAC. But, you could make a case.

Auburn pluses you’ve expressed:

  • family has attended and continues to cheer for sports teams
  • proximity to extended family

UNC pluses you’ve alluded to:

  • UNC is more highly ranked.
  • UNC is closer to your parents which might be very important to your mom
  • UNC is less expensive. It is unclear how big a factor this is for your parents.

Are there any negatives to attending UNC?