<p>You find a romantic partner through through friends, parties, clubs (and yes, there are organizations for adults: professional activities, college alum activities, community activities, volunteering) and activities like sports. You also may find a romantic partner through work, though you need to be careful as lots of companies frown on this.</p>
<p>Of course, you can find people by going to bars and getting drunk, but in that case, you get what you lay for.</p>