<p>We also moved D across country- Calif. to PA. I bought a big suitcase at a thrift store for $8 and filled it with her stuff. She had another one that she also filled. I took my stuff in a carry-on and she took a carry-on. So we checked 2 bags - I unpacked the thrift store one and then dropped it off at another thrift store there. She kept her bag there for future use. We bought bedding towels, etc. there. My husband did not go because of added cost.</p>
<p>We flew into an airport about 3 hours away as it was WAY cheaperso did rent a car. I bid on a car thru Priceline and got a full size for $16/per day last August. You might try bidding although I tried again in April and could not get a good rate. That time I got it through Costco, still at a good discount.</p>
<p>I would also leave brother at home- there is nothing fun about move-in and the orientations can get very boring. Siblings tend to get very bored and get in the way. It is stressful enough without anyone extra!</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>