I was feeling a bit worry because my 2 kiddos fit your description. They’re quite mature but not 100% on time management, class assignments, grading rubric requirements but they do and still ask for suggestions here and there or they would bring it up in a conversation for us to discuss. I can definitely picture they do not know how to do laundry, ironing nor online shopping. I try to teach them as much as we can but there are still a lot not covered!
Totally agree it is amazing to see children grow. Starting last year my 14 and 12.5yr old are able to navigate complex subway system to get from point A to point B using maps. I don’t need to drive them anymore when they have birthdays get together. The freedom is awesome! The next level is to see them travel on their own and ugh I worry about this.