How do you spell SUCCESS?

@bisouu, I truly hope that you do not leave the CC community. I for one have enjoyed reading your posts and have benefitted from your experience. In my humble opinion, there is something a little prickly happening, perhaps a bit more on the MT page, than used to be the case. I don’t know what that is or why it is. It seems less prickly on the drama page to me. But, Bissouu, you are valued and your voice is appreciated! Please don’t leave.

Also, please don’t read my comments as attacks, anyone. I am just a mom here, trying to learn what I can, and pass along what I have learned to others. I mean no offense. Ever. Truly.

Hurray for all of these kids, and let’s hope many different roads lead to equity cards (at the right time and place). @jeffandann, is that the big rock Jesus Christ Superstar in Indy with the singer from Incubus and JC Chasez? That sounds like an incredible spectacle, what an experience for your daughter.

I echo @YardleySisa 's sentiments and truly hope @bisouu that you will stay as part of CC. Your D’s positive outcome is very inspiring and a story that is important to tell. Thank you for sharing with us. Please stay! And we’d love to hear more about what your D is doing this summer. Hope you will tell us more.

@jeffandann Congrats to your D! Both last year and this year sound like great opportunities!

@bisouu a big congratulations to your daughter! I have really enjoyed following her journey, being a fellow Southern Californian and I need to you to hang around because my daughter is only a sophomore so I will be counting on your help as well as the other old timers here when it comes to be her turn in a couple of years! Being from SoCal I know exactly the program you are talking about and have heard nothing but rave reviews. Kudos to your daughter for landing a spot. That is great!

Congratulations to everyone posting success stories here. It is so encouraging. Please keep it up!

I have two children in performing arts.A son is a freshman in an MT program, just finishing his freshman year. I have an older child, a daughter, who now is 22. It is her story I shall tell.

She started college not wanting to focus on theater, trying to be pragmatic. She thus entered a college in Chicago not intending to major in theater or dance, her first love. After a few months, she realized she must follow her heart. And auditioned and transferred to Loyola Marymount University in LA, majoring in dance and English,wanting a well rounded and academic college experience and education. She took many credits each semester to nearly major in both, resulting in switching her English major to a minor her senior year. She had years of performing in local musical theater.

She graduated in May of 2014. LMU is not known as a big theater program but has excellent dance training. My daughter graduated, lived in LA, got one gig as a dancer in a regional theater production of Memphis, and worked as a part time nanny and yoga teacher to pay bills. Now it is almost a year later as she graduated in May 2014.

In February, she headed to NYC for a month trying the audition circuit. She intended to stay just for a month to see what that was like. She learned so much from the process… where she stood in terms of dance ability, where to audition, open calls, waiting, diligence, tenacity, etc. She loved it. She intended to move back to NYC in a year when her LA apt lease was up and go at it.

Two weeks later after returning to LA, she auditioned with no agent during open call for a national tour. She is now cast as a member of the touring company of Mama Mia and rehearses in NYC for 4 weeks beginning in September and then will go on a 10 month tour across the country and Canada.

I write her story to encourage others who may not be at a big name school. In the audition room, names of colleges and training programs matter less than what they think of your audition.

I wish all well.

Congrats to your daughter, @redheadlady! Very interesting to read her story and hopefully it encourages others of the possibilities!

That’s an awesome story, @redheadlady!

I love hearing all of these stories and hope people keep posting. There truly are many paths.

This is a fun thread. Thanks.

YAY @redheadlady love it! Congrats!

Our D, a soon-to-graduate senior, has made several decisions along the way that we’ve second-guessed, but so far her path seems to be leading exactly where she wants to be (knock on wood) so perhaps a brief version of her story is worth sharing.

Her first unexpected choice was that she decided she didn’t want a Conservatory, an urban campus, or a small program, which ruled out most of the schools we’d assumed she’d gravitate toward. Then she decided she preferred an academically-selective school where she could double major, which further rearranged her list, so by the time she submitted her ED application she was headed in an unexpected college direction.

Her second decision that surprised us was that she turned down several paying summerstock offers after her sophomore year, and instead opted for an unpaid campus production (and since she had to pay her own summer expenses that also meant taking a non-theatre day job that summer). She felt it was a stronger project and team, and that she would grow most from doing it.

Her third surprising choice was that she decided to skip her senior NY Showcase and to turn down a callback for a lead in a National Tour, as they conflicted with a current project that is near to her heart.

All of that being said, she was offered an Equity Principal contract with a major regional theatre at the end of her Junior year partly as a result of her unpaid summer school show, was scouted by a strong agency as a result of that job and has had a steady stream of great contracts with Equity and AGMA theatres (including leading Shakespeare, MT and Opera companies) ever since, taking two of her final three quarters off of school (a significant tuition savings on top of great steady performing paychecks) and has signed contracts through next October.

The most important thing I’ve learned by following her progress to-date is that our kids are the best stewards of their own path, which doesn’t always travel in the directions that we observers might expect it to.

Congratulations to all of the courageous, talented and creative kids who are successfully navigating these professional acting waters!

Congrats @redheadlady and @MomCares! Love reading all the different paths these kids can choose!

@MomCares Your daughter is a success story before she even graduates! Will be fun to watch her career continue to grow!

A little off topic but this post reminded me, does anyone remember the link the the thread about freshman year experiences at theatre programs?

Here was one… http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/musical-theater-major/1067706-the-freshman-experience.html

And another… http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/musical-theater-major/1536769-fall-2013-freshman-experience.html

Haha… thanks! Of course we have no idea what comes next, but I can at least say with confidence that today she loves her job more than just about anyone I know. :slight_smile:

Terrific MomCares.Very impressive

@redheadlady - Same to you! and your talented D!! :wink:

We’re all thrilled with her launch to-date (and CC old-timers may remember how dubious I was about D’s career choice and also about several of her decisions along the way) but so far the contracts she’s accepted have each been ~ 3-4 months long, so the string of good luck could of course end any time. I may have been more interested in the tour contract than she was due to the longer duration, but I suppose that’s a mixed bag as well.

As one of the “old timers”, I haven’t posted on the MT forum in quite a while but happened to stumble on this thread and noted the urgings of some posters for posts about successes outside of theatre, so here goes. My daughter graduated 4 years ago with a BFA in MT. During her senior year, she got certified as a Spinning instructor. Immediately after graduation, she also got certified as a personal trainer. She had always been a gym rat/fitness enthusiast and her thought process was that the fitness industry could be a great, fun and very flexible way to meet her survival employment needs post graduation. After graduation, she got a bunch of shows, both equity and non-equity, and racked up a load of EMC points. It looked to us that she was well on her way to building success in a performing career. Along the way, however, her “survival” employment took some very interesting turns. Tremendous opportunities were offered to her to grow and develop a career in the fitness industry. She was featured on television on the local news doing a series on fitness, was featured in major regional print and web based media, was asked to make a series of videos at a nearby beach resort for the web-zine division of a major regional magazine, was used as a print model in the major local newspaper and was offered a position as the general manager of the first indoor cycling studio in our city. As all of this evolved, she was also offered employment as a spinning and group fitness instructor and personal trainer at the largest most upscale fitness facility in our city. She also developed a very solid book of in home private personal training clients.

Suddenly, what had started out as a cool idea for survival employment had turned into a career. My daughter got to the point where she had to make decisions about prioritizing how to spend her time. The fitness industry “won”. She found it increasingly difficult to take time off for auditions and shows because of her sense of commitment to her clients, their reliance on her and the rapport and relationships she developed. And on a very practical level, she was making more each week on a consistent basis than Equity scale in Broadway productions without any of the vagaries that are an integral part of performing.

While my daughter loves performing and was experiencing successes at that, she has an equal passion for working in the fitness industry. She finds tremendous gratification in working with people assisting them to achieve their fitness and health goals and in many cases transforming their lives. She uses her creativity and performing skills on a daily basis in structuring her classes, connecting with clients both in group fitness classes and in personal training and in creating and projecting an atmosphere, “story” and imagery that keeps her clients engaged and inspired. On a daily basis, she gets “audience feedback”, both in person and on widespread website blogging, about how much she has touched other peoples’ lives.

So now, 4 years out, the fitness floor is now my daughter’s stage. Having attended her spinning classes, I have observed first hand how she uses her skills and talents as a performer to make those classes the huge success they are. My daughter continues to work as the manager of the cycling studio and will become an equity partner as it expands to a second location. She continues to work at the upscale fitness facility and with her private book of clients. She is going to be featured in July in an article in the largest cultural/social scene magazine in our region. In addition to the fitness industry, she continues to work as the dance manager and only female MC for a very successful entertainment company that stages life event parties in our region, a job where she started as dancer at the age of 15 and worked her way up.

My friends ask me how I feel about all of this, given that she trained so hard to be a “traditional” performer, spent 4 years in a BFA program and we spent 4 years of college tuition all for purposes of performing on the stage and she was achieving successes at that. My response: she is deliriously happy with what she is doing, is deriving tremendous gratification from her endeavors on a daily basis, has achieved great recognition as a professional in her business - and at the age of 26 is fully self supporting living in the heart of a dynamic, youthful city where her life is filled with loving and caring relationships. I think by any definition, that spells S-U-C-C-E-S-S.

@michaelNKat - LOVE love love her story!! What do any of us want more than for our kids to create a joyful and sustainable place for themselves, and it sounds like your D is doing exactly that in a stellar way. Bravo!!!

I bet the vast majority of our kids will choose to do something other than MT by the time they’re 30, and I won’t feel even a twinge of regret when/if that happens. I certainly didn’t have any desire to be an adult constantly waiting for someone to cast me and will absolutely applaud D when/if she reaches the same conclusion.

Wish your D was in my city as I’d certainly benefit from her services!