How far to push them out of their comfort zone (and how hard to push)?

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While I think there might need to be the push at least to visit Dartmouth, so that he can make a truly informed decision, remember that no matter what you think would be best for him academically or socially, the decision should ultimately be his and his alone (assuming that money really isn’t a problem).

I totally agree with this … and with the folks suggesting a visit to Dartmouth. If it were my kid the sales pitch would be include … you have 3 terrific options and you can’t really go wrong … I would like you to visit all 3 chioices for two reasons … so you really understand all 3 of your options … and so you never look back and wonder about the road not taken; if you do not check out one of these 3 schools in the future you may wonder “what if” however if you visit all 3 schools it will make your selection now much more solid.</p>