<p>The rule in our house was that our kids had to visit schools that DH & I thought might be suitable for them, but they DID NOT have to apply, nor obviously attend, anywhere that wasn’t their choice. Once they understood that THEY had the final say, they didn’t have a problem just looking at schools we chose, knowing they would never be pressured to attend if they didn’t want to.</p>
<p>Go look at Dartmouth.</p>