<p>Not sure. The communication I get is negative, a poor grade on a test, not happy with his program, etc. But I suspect there are good times going on as well, since the e-mails are so sporadic. I think Mom might be a place for venting. It keeps me worrying, though. </p>
<p>S is at an urban Ivy, and might suddenly be dealing with the realization that he is just middle of the pack, not top dog anymore.</p>