We do have LTC policies we have had for years - at the 10-year point we were given options to pay increased premiums or to keep a level premium with reduced benefits, and we chose that option. Every year or so, they send us an option to take a cash lump sum for each of our policies - no way, we keep paying our annual fee. To me, it is a way to have the payments of care applied when they are needed, but not to âoverpayâ on insurance.
The ânewâ LTC insurance policies are with a mix of insurance to have a death benefit if not used; with our policies no death benefit at all.
Son-in-lawâs parents are dragging their feet to selling their home and moving to the AL facility near their other son (and they would be 6 hoursâ drive from DD1 and their son). Now they live very distant to both.
As soon as SIL transitions out of the service during 2026 and into his FT career in the city they live in, we plan to move, probably in 2027 to be near them. We are still in go-go years, but that will change over time, and it will be good to be near family. The move will be a big endeavor for us - and once in a new house, will be adjustment time and new living patterns. I plan to revolve my extra time around special time with the grandkids and helping out DD1/SIL. DH will need to adjust his hobbies and friend network (we have other friends and family in the new state). Financially it is best to sell our home first before buying another, and so it will be coordinating the storage of what we want to keep for moving into new home.
We have been retired - 4 years for me and 5 years for DH - and have not spent down our nest egg. Our investments are keeping pace.
Key is to have enough to be able to live during the go-go and the slow-go years, and when you hit the no-go years, live comfortably, even if it is in skilled care on Medicaid. DH and I are the same ages (he is just 4 months older). One doesnât know if one will live to average life expectancy, or how much beyond.
To me, plan, but donât worry. Planning should take worry out of the mix. Keeping up with current information can help slightly adjust planning.
Many seniors find comfort in living frugally - and a small splurge can perhaps feel like a real luxury to them. Some people want to travel a lot in their go-go years before they hit slow-go years.
I know a couple that are about 7 years older than us. They have gone on 37 cruises. I believe they were used to having expensive vacations every year, and it is âtheir thingâ. I went on one cruise with a GF and DH has gone on none (I went with my GF because my DH says he would not like to go on one). One cruise was enough for me - I enjoyed it, but I do not repeat travel except to areas where family are in the US, and trips to Switzerland - and I donât see myself going again to Switzerland (Iâve been 5X, and the last time was for a month in 2016). I am a Swiss dual-citizen and stay with relatives and friends. I went on a US trip with a group from our local university OLLI program (Osher Lifelong Learning Institute) - we have a great organization here due to committed volunteers, and I will miss this group. We have a close cousin that, once they hit business success and also some inheritance, go on several cruises per year - it is the one time he can really relax, and they enjoy all the cruises have to offer.