<p>No. The amount is ABSURD (imo).</p>
<p>The ideal rule is 10 minutes per grade = 100 minutes. I think we all know that the teachers, regardless of what they say, mostly do NOT coordinate this (how can they in high school anyway?). Of course everyone knows their are heavier nights, and A/P classes add more. </p>
<p>Something to consider:
My daughter is now a senior. She DOES spend hours and hours in the office. But, as OP said, there is the Internet on that computer! So everything is done SLOWER than it has to be. I’ve repeatedly taken it away and find she has very little homework! But, since she is now getting it done, I pick other battles, the computer is where she wants to spend her evenings. She is VERY involved in ECs (actually…one of her CLASSES takes as much as 20 hours outside of class in a competition week!..and there are many other things in which she’s involved too). And she’s very social, so I don’t worry about her hanging out online (though I personally HATE to see them tied to that screen and DO “take it away” when I see it getting excessive…their lives just melt away…they have no sense of time or time management…it’s the 50s radio and 60s TV and 70s video games - now it’s the computer).</p>
<p>My point I’m trying to get to is that during grades 6,7,8…she had her WORST homework. Like your child…4-5 hours a night! It was a horrid time for us. She got it done, she got good grades. But it was awful. </p>
<p>I learned two things:</p>
<p>My daughter CANNOT be pushed/made to hurry. She digs in her heels and simply CAN’T do it. Not because she’s stubborn, she just can’t seem to respond appropriately. She has one speed…her speed.</p>
<p>Also - we learned she had MULTIPLE and pretty severe allergies. We knew she had asthma, but we discovered a dairy allergy during this time. Removing dairy made her an entirely new person! She could not focus on ANYTHING prior to this. I know it sounds crazy…but this is a top 1% child who was in a special class where they pulled out only the top 20 ish kids. Then she was pulled out of THAT class to be 2 years advanced in math. Yet this is NOT the reason for the homework (I spoke to her teachers about it several times). It was a focus issue. She would spend 2 hours on math alone! She did have a lot of math, but not that much. </p>
<p>So…removing from the computer will help. But maybe he doesn’t CARE that it takes that long, provided he can surf and chat with friends at the same time.</p>
<p>And check for other/behavioral issues (allergies, focus ADHD…I know…I thought “ugh” too!).</p>
<p>And remind him that this year is VERY important in terms of solidifying his GPA for college admissions. He’ll be sending in applications next Fall based on his rank/GPA at the end of THIS year. </p>
<p>Good luck!!!</p>