<p>oh my. you’re scaring me. haha to clear up a few things up, yes my mom is the one with the greencard. I just don’t know what to do when my dad refuses to agree or just give me ANYTHING. anything as in like paperwork and stuff. plus my dad doesn’t work in the u.s. thats the other big thing. he teaches in another country. whilst my mom teaches here in MI. once they divorce I’ll have no contact with him. I really really appreciate all the information you have given me!!! though now I am even more scared. gah!</p>