Hey, I don’t think MOWC was calling the OP out - clearly we are all participating in the thread. Maybe MOWC was just talking out loud - I myself would think given my history on this board, I came first for college info - and would have surely posted a question or contributed to a thread on that FIRST - before jumping into the cafe and starting my own thread. Or even commenting on a thread in the cafe before posting a new thread. It’s not a judgement just an observation - for me anyway. 
Good topic OP, hope you’ll participate in other threads here as well!