Also this seems odd to me:
Neither of us like the way AP classes are tested and how they are graded. She will not have the most rigorous schedule which is why I asked about college admissions.
95% of high achieving kids do fine with the testing and the grading of AP classes, and I would think the number of odd AP teachers with bizarre grading practices at any high school would be less than say 20-30%.
You got to let the next 6 years unfold as they will. Let her keep taking advanced courses, if they suit her, and if that should lead to the AP path, it will likely suit her (and there are rumor mills to keep you away from the nutty AP teacher).
Also - why are you picking majors and colleges for HER four or five years before she needs to decide or will likely have an opinion ? What if she loses interest in nursing or even bio - and say gets interested in math or something else.
I think the best thing that could happen is a three year break from CC.