My parents paid for my college education and my H’s parents paid for his. It was a source of great pleasure and pride for my H and I to send our kids to college. What did we want in return? We expected our children to appreciate the gift of attending a college of their choice and to make the most of their opportunity in every way possible (academically, socially, involvement on campus). And yes…we certainly hope they can and will do the same thing for their kids.
Instead of feeling guilty here are some things you can do –
–Tell your parents “thank you” and that you appreciate what they are doing for your future. This will mean a lot (trust me)
–When you come home for vacation surprise them with a Purdue mug/hat (whatever you think they will like)
–Keep in touch while you are in college (even once a week or so is fine) – when you can share a couple of stories about things you love at Purdue.
–You have made mistakes but hopefully you have learned, grown, and matured since then – don’t repeat that pattern. --Make the most of your opportunity.