It was certainly a surprise for my parents when they found out I was rushing a non traditional sorority since I’m essentially a tomboy who shudders at the thought of going through traditional rush and living in a house with 100+ other women. I joined my chapter because the rush events were fairly informal, I wanted to party, and the opportunity to make stronger friendships was incredibly appealing to me.
I’m a second semester senior now, and have zero regrets about joining my chapter. Had I gone through formal rush and joined a panhellenic organization which has date parties, expectations regarding dress, etc I most likely would feel differently.