<p>OP’s list is fine, for what it is. I trust that anyone reading it will realize that’s not the only way things happen. </p>
<p>For my D and DIII recruiting, the process has been more analogous to applying for a job. It seems that she skipped a few of OP’s steps, as the process was quick and it was very easy to gauge the coach’s interest level. Her process:</p>
<p>-potential recruit sends out inquiries (film, profile + letter), fills out online questionaires
-coaches respond indicating interest, either by phone or email
-recruit pursues the leads, or not, depending on what else is happening, by responding to email or phone call
-coaches invites recruit to visit
-recruit visits 1 or more colleges and has frank discussions with coaches
-coach follows up visit with emails, calls and offers to speak with parents. Coach urges early app and makes predictions about admission
-recruit shows commitment and undying faith by applying early, and - with any luck - gets in</p>
<p>I agree with Sherpa that this forum has become a great resource for parents and kids alike. Thanks to all!</p>