<p>i disagree, you just need to have a little flexibility with terms/interpretation. Do the terms in () fit your son:</p>
<p>. On the school’s athletic mailing list - I don’t think so
(on your club or coaches visit list)
. Calls your high school coach - N/A; didn’t have a HS coach
(calls your club or team coach or private coach)
. Comes to see you play - never came to our area, but watched him at National Championships, Junior Olympics, etc.
(sees him compete, anywhere)
. Emails you regularly - a few emails after they had mutually commited
(emails, texts, phone calls, whatever but reaches out)
. Mails you a media guide and school information - didn’t happen
(that’s odd, I’ve got an HYP package including all the specific sport stuff on my table)
. Sends text messages - not one
(text, phone calls, smoke signals, comes to the house, contact is contact)
. Sets up phone conversation with you - yes
. Sees you play more than once - yes
. Sets up regular phone calls - a few
. Invites you to make an official or unofficial visit - both
. Offers you a scholarship - no, Ivy league rules
(offers a LL)</p>