@Herokid11:
CC is filled with success stories of those who transferred from a community college to a competitive 4-year school. Search is your friend.
You’ll find numerous stories on this thread:
http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/transfer-students/1032244-community-college-success-stories-p1.html
In your community college (or state school), if you work like crazy to get all A’s, and become very involved in activities on campus, and show your grit is coming from you (vs being propelled by the treadmill your upbringing environment has put you on), then you can expect 4-year schools to look at your transfer application seriously.
I make the above statement with all sincerity. It worked for me.
All the best.