It’s okay. But now on, you have to adjust your thinking. It’s the cold, hard reality.
Earn the $280 back and set them aside.
U Wisconsin Eau Claire has a good Honors College BTW. UMN Morris is great for CS and has a “private college” feel.
UMN Twin Cities is really good, and has reprocity so it’d be the same cost as U Wisconsin.
Those are universities you can invest in applying to.
And if you leave U Wisconsin, look up “my children’s college” for the complete list of full tuition/full ride list.