<p>just make it as less painful as possible. thats the point. there are some people who will make it as painful as possible, just to see, how hurt you get, because it is a direct indication of how much she likes you, and is also an ego boost. at the same time</p>
<p>(i am male )
i was dumped half way through a relationship, for another guy. worse the other guy was my best friend. that is probably as bad as it gets. anything else that happens after that in life, you will proboably not feel so hurt. </p>
<p>so just rememeber, reject her how ever you want, but please just dont make it painful. some people take years to get over it. i took 1 full year.</p>