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<p>Blitz: As I read it, you are trying to have your cake and eat it too. You want a particular girl. But you are also friends with other girl/s who want you. You still want the particular girl, but you don’t want to lose the adoration or friendship of the other girl. To me, it reads more like that than that you don’t want to hurt the other girl/s feelings.</p>
<p>I think the biggest thing you need to learn is that sometimes you are simply going to be disliked by people because you don’t do what they want you to do. </p>
<p>Tell the girls you don’t like exactly what Camelia S. said. You don’t need to do more. But expect that it is going to hurt or possibly **** off some girls, and that’s just going to happen.</p>
<p>Maybe I’m reading this wrong, but I don’t get why you’d be concerned with the other girl seeing you guys together. If it’s so, it’s really, really nice of you to be concerned about her feelings and you definitely do not want to flaunt your relationship or friendship with another girl in front of her: that’s tasteless and cruel and you’d be a lesser man for it. But on the other hand, don’t go far out of your way to avoid the inevitable – she’s gonna see you guys.</p>