@Lindagaf well lol. She wants to know the right people from her school, though, not the ones at the safety schools who she never has class with. That’s the kicker. However, I feel like she’s coming around bit by bit. She’s friends with one senior who is crazy bright but maybe doesn’t have the best ECs and did have one C in APCalc one semester. She had personal stuff going on. She was denied her ED and just decided to chuck the idea of stretching herself anymore and is going to a big southern school where she’s getting merit. This was a big old surprise to D and I think it’s a good example of how it would be just fine if her list has to shift.
I can talk to her about safeties but we won’t even have a chance to get to any more schools this spring anyway. After spring break, the rest of visits will have to be summer (or fall).
Guess we should move away from all of this talk, though, since it’s off topic for this thread!