@homerdog Don’t let her forget that she already has an ACT score that is pretty good and would fall in the 25-75 range for a bunch of schools on her list.
And with regard to Wake, maybe don’t talk it up so much to her before you go. You don’t want her to feel forced into it because it’s TO, because then the actual visit may have too much riding on it. Maybe better to downplay it so the visit expectations will be lower. Reverse psychology!