<p>You first need to finish high school and go to college. And I think it will be important for you to learn to communicate with your parents. It sounds like you might want to start by talking to your dad. Is he asking you about your desires because he sees the pressure your mom is putting on you? Be honest with your parents. ((HUGS)) to you, neuronerd36. (And if 36 refers to an ACT score, you will have a lot of options for college!)</p>