<p>^ Irresponsible? What kind of responsibility does one have to posting on an online forum. I’m not even passing judgment on the OP, but some really, hypothetical person who doesn’t even know this thread exists!</p>
<p>Have no ax to grind. Quite the contrary. I’ve never heard of someone in my real world who didn’t pay a tuition bill; I’m about the most liberal person on this board who woudl probably be called a socialist if I moved back to the US (Oldfort can probably attest to that!); and my spouse and I’s family of origin is extremely poor (and we support both sides quite significantly so we see first hand the challenges for so many). </p>
<p>Hmmm Annadad…now who is making assumptions that lead to negative judgments? :)</p>
<p>Might it be pointed out that you said you identify with the family here…ax to grind?</p>