I am absolutely miserable at college

Yes to all the above comments and would like to emphasize that a lot of kids look like they have friends but wouldn’t consider them friends.

I’d encourage you to get involved in more than one club to see if that helps you meet like-minded people. Getting involved is so important socially and it sounds like you’re already trying to do that, which is great. You just haven’t found the right club yet. Do you like to run? I know several kids who’ve met good friends through the running club…they seem to be pretty inclusive.

Keep putting yourself out there and the social life will come.