Did you read this pinned post? http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/2016222-to-those-who-feel-lonely-homesick-friendless-think-they-chose-the-wrong-school-etc.html#latest
You are not alone. This is common. Just because it’s not exactly like everyone else, doesn’t mean that it’s a different problem. Maybe you need to transfer, but I can tell you that my D, who was the inspiration for writing the linked post, said the same things you are saying. If these are the worst months of your life, consider yourself lucky. You can get through this time, which is pretty short in reality, even if seems to be dragging now. Ask yourself what will change if you go to a different college. If the answer is “I don’t know” then perhaps you just need to get through this. I guarantee there are others who don’t party. Find those people.