Imo, OP needs to put first things first. Unfortunately, that’s the living situation. It should be cheap digs, whether you have a roomate or find a situation where others have space for you.
Then, how long will your current income cover that? Can you work more hours or add work, in order to live?
After that, you view the college options. Of course, we want you to finish. But first you need to be on your feet.
I’m confused whether OP truly can say she spent more time with (or recieved more $ support from) Mom. That would change the EFC basis from Mr Dad, with his increased income and spouse’s in the mix. What’s that story, OP?