<p>As I keep rereading this post-I keep wondering: is it worse to be clueless about how you impact every one else attending a ceremony (who after all also really only care about just one person out of 1085), or to be absolutely obnoxious and not care because “I got mine” is all that really matters to you? And- if the latter is your approach- who would be so clueless as to admit it? There may not be an “I” in winner, but I’m pretty sure that the word winner isn’t applied too often to anyone with this philosphy!</p>