Here’s my 2 cents. You have healthier things you could be doing than to torture yourself in trying to get into these schools. You seriously don’t need them to have a solid prosperous career. Smart talented people go far because they’re smart and talented, not because of a school brand name. Stressing over schools with a 95% rejection rate is a mental breakdown waiting to happen. I have ADHD too. The most important thing you can do for yourself, especially with ADHD, is to find mental balance. Otherwise you’re going to get burned out…BAD. Stressing over an A- over these high reject schools is NOT mentally balanced.
Let me put it in perspective. My wife, years back, graduated valedictorian and she was accepted into Yale. When she did her graduation speech, she weighed 78 lbs.
My advice, stay balanced…and for goodness sake, ENJOY being a teenager! Choose a school that makes you happy. If you have B’s…who @#$%^ cares?