Well, in the attempt to get full custody and him opening up a court case 8 years post divorce, he had to submit new financials. Oldest aged out (as in graduated hs and turned 18) as this last case took 2 years (ex kept requesting new investigators and they all came to the same conclusion that his wife isnt a nice person).
So anyways, I gained slightly more custody but he went from having to pay for 3 kids to only 2 kids. Idiot made his fatal mistake by filing a frivolous claim and it bit in him the tookus.
I dont feel bad at all that with the new calculations that he has to pay DOUBLE the child support he was before. While I would love for it to all go to kids education, I have to pay my legal debts and such first. (well, that and kids are not cheap!) But yes, a good chunk is now being filed away as I can’t trust him. Its not going to be enough to make up in the only 3 years I have before middle child goes to college but its a start.