Wow @2plustrio it sounds like ex’s 2nd wife was thinking there was more money with her marriage, and now she is squeezing as much as she can.
Yea, get full custody to not pay the child support difference between the two incomes.
So does the new wife have children and her ex is not as good of a provider as she wants?
So sorry you had to pay $$ to shut down some of the manipulation.
I do think the kids are going to have to make the requests from the college money and hope for the best.
You could probably get the deposit records on the college account and figure out more on that, but in the end you don’t want to put the dad in a bad light with his kids. They can figure that out themselves as time goes on.
What state are you in?