I see you’re from the Bay Area; if you consider the CC-to-UC route and want a strong music program, West Valley could be a good choice. West Valley College Receives National Association of Schools of Music Accreditation | West Valley College
A lot of people find it hard to adjust at first, and it’s quite possible that if you stayed the course at your current school, you might find your groove and be glad you stayed. But then again, if you’re paying for an expensive OOS school only to be unhappy, there’s nothing that says you have to throw good money after bad. If you come home and do well at a CC, you should have excellent transfer options. How do your parents feel about the decision?
I see from your other posts that you’re interested in studying abroad. Rather than campus-hopping, you might consider doing what one of my kids did when she was initially ambivalent about her school. She went to a study abroad orientation early in her first-year spring, and got the ball rolling to study abroad sophomore spring. (Yes, the process takes that long.) By the time she finished sophomore fall, she had found her stride and no longer wanted to transfer. But if she had wanted to transfer, she could have submitted applications for a junior transfer before leaving for her semester abroad, had that experience under the auspices of her first college, and then transferred upon her return. If you did this, you’d only be committing to two more semesters on campus at your current school, and you could table the decision about transferring until the fall, without feeling like you would be stuck for your entire sophomore year.