<p>I also did not fit into “typical” college life when I attended long ago. I found my comfort zone living off campus and focusing on my studies, PT job, etc. I really understand what you say about being surrounded by people of all ages with regular lives rather than a college bubble. I think you are very mature to recognize, and say, what is right for you rather than going along with the crowd. I cannot comment upon the ease of transferring but I think you have taken the right first steps by going to counseling and speaking to your family. Now it us up to you to make the best of it until you can make whatever changes will make you comfortable, which will require even more mature behavior than you have exhibited thus far. Good grades are key to all future options. Study hard. Attend events that make you comfortable and reevaluate around the holidays. I wish you all the best. </p>