<p><<<<…>>>> = Quotes from Poetsheart:</p>
<p><<<<< I always find it interesting that people insist on saying that upper-middle class and “rich” black kids (as if the country, and elite colleges in particular, are crawling with them) are “no different” from their white counterparts, and bring nothing to an institution in the way of diversity. >>>></p>
<p>My response: EVERYONE is “special” – EVERYONE brings a different perspective to the table. That said, I have no problem with colleges trying to make sure that a fair number of URMs are part of their college systems – as long as they are qualified. Since there are MANY high scoring URMs of all colors, then “court” them and get them to the campuses. If that means doing some extra hard “scouting” & offering extra scholarships to make sure enuf qualified URM’s are applying & accepting, then do it.
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<p><<<< Afluent blacks who live in racially diverse neighborhoods (like my sister and her family) often enjoy gratifying friendships with the many racially and ethnicly different families in their neighborhoods. In my sister’s case, where all the homes are well over 4000 square ft, everyone is a high income professional. >>></p>
<p>My response: Does you sis live in my neighborhood??? You’ve described my street (about 30% black). All live in all brick homes greater than 4000 sq ft. Since I am close to ALL my neighbors B & W – they’re in my home, I’m in theirs – we all party together. Their kids play & go to private schools - some with my kids. My Catholic church is about half black - so we worship together, too. (By the way, statistics say that Black Catholics are the highest income group among blacks.) Each one of us can bring a new and different experience to share but I wouldn’t say that my black neighbors have such incredibly different experiences that somehow trump anyone elses. And, I think that they would take offense if someone suggested that they did. Because of our closeness, they know that their white neighbors and church friends have had tragedies, horrors, and, yes, unfair actions taken against them, too. We’ve wept together when loved ones have tragically died, we’ve prayed to gether when loved ones are ill, we’ve celebrates promotions and other achievements. Every group and every person have had crosses to bear – everyone – no one is exempt from the harsh realities of the world. :(</p>
<p><<<< “Did you object to the Saint Patrick’s day parade?”, >>></p>
<p>Your friend was rude. However, it might interest you that our annual St. Patrick’s Day parade is run each and every year by my neighbor, who is a black man – a diehard ND fan and graduate. And the attendees of the parade and those who march are B & W. On St. Paddy’s day EVERYONE is Irish. ;)</p>
<p><<<<< Would you say that there are no note-worthy differences between a black kid whose family makes $25,000 per year living in inner city Baltimore, and a white one whose family pulls down the same income living in a West Virginia Holler? >>>></p>
<p>My response: Frankly, if both kids were white (or asian or black or whatever) they would have diverse backgrounds. An Italian kid from the Bronx has a very different story to tell than the Swede from Minnesota. The Polish kid from L.A. has a different story than the Jewish girl from Miami. A black kid living in the suburbs has a vastly different experience then the black kid living in downtown Chicago. My “small town” mom had very different experiences than my “big city” dad. Anytime you look at any two people from different parts of the country and also mix in the differences between urban and rural you will have differences. :)</p>